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For Men By Men

Houston, Texas · Est. for the long haul

Real men.
Real conversations.
Real growth.

A Christ-centered brotherhood for men who are tired of pretending they have it together. Come as you are. Don't stay that way.

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Why we exist

Most men are surrounded by people and still fighting alone.

For Men By Men exists to put an end to that. We're a movement of ordinary men — fathers, husbands, workers, sons — learning to follow Christ out loud and in the open, with other men who won't let us drift.

No performance. No religious theater. Just honest conversations, hard truth, and brothers who stay in the room.

Founder Jason Alexis behind the podcast microphone

What we build

Four things we refuse to do halfway.

Faith

Christ at the center — not as a slogan, but as the thing that reorders a man's whole life.

Brotherhood

Men were never meant to fight alone. We build friendships with teeth in them.

Family

Husbands who stay. Fathers who show up. Sons who learn what a man looks like.

Purpose

Work, calling, and service — living for something bigger than comfort.

Latest episode

When Good Men Struggle in Secret with Pornography

with Mike Hansen

Can a man genuinely love God, serve in ministry, and still struggle with pornography? In Episode 2 of For Men By Men, Jason Alexis sits down with Mike Hansen of Men Restored Ministries for an honest, Christ-centered conversation about pornography, shame, marriage, and the journey toward freedom. Mike shares how his struggle followed him into his Christian life and marriage—and why getting married didn’t make it disappear. He opens up about God’s grace, the questions he wrestled with, and how understanding his identity as a beloved son of God became foundational to his journey. Together, Jason and Mike explore the shame that keeps men silent, the importance of safe brotherhood and accountability, and what it means to own your story without letting it define your future. This isn’t just about leaving a habit behind. It’s about finding the courage to seek help, receive grace, and allow God to use your story to encourage another man. Mike also introduces Exodus Freedom Journey, his free, 40-episode podcast built around identity, facing obstacles, developing habits, and understanding the power of your testimony. Whether you’re fighting this battle yourself, walking alongside someone who is, or leading men in your church, this conversation is an invitation to step out of isolation and take a step toward help. Your struggle doesn’t have to be the end of your story. Connect with Mike and explore resources: Men Restored Ministries — Mike Hansen https://www.menrestored.com/ Men Restored Blueprint for Men — Christ-centered men’s ministry and resources https://blueprintformen.org/ Blueprint for Men Men of Integrity — Recovery groups and support through Blueprint for Men https://blueprintformen.org/en/men-of-integrity/ Blueprint for Men Subscribe to For Men By Men for more honest conversations about faith, family, purpose, and brotherhood. Share this episode with a brother who needs encouragement. Listener discretion: This episode includes candid discussion of pornography and personal sexual history. #ForMenByMen #ChristianMen #MensMinistry #PornographyRecovery #Brotherhood #FreedomInChrist

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Episode 2

When Good Men Struggle in Secret with Pornography

Can a man genuinely love God, serve in ministry, and still struggle with pornography? In this upcoming episode of For Men By Men, Mike Hansen shares his personal journey with pornography, shame, marriage, faith, and ultimately freedom. We talk about why simply “trying harder” often isn’t enough, the role identity and brotherhood play in breaking bondage, and why owning your story may be one of the most powerful steps toward healing. This is an honest conversation for men who are struggling—and for the men who want to help them. Coming soon.

Mike Hansen #Trailer · 00:01:34

Episode 1

When Money Becomes a Burden: Debt, Manhood & Financial Peace

In Episode 1 of For Men By Men, Jason Alexis sits down with Gabriel Castro for an honest conversation about money, manhood, family, faith, and the pressure many men carry. The conversation starts light—with cooking, climbing roofs, raising sons, and Gabriel’s college cupcake business—but quickly goes deeper. They discuss the stress of debt, credit cards, budgeting, financial mistakes, the pressure to provide, and how our desire for success, respect, or status can influence the way we spend. Gabriel also shares practical principles for moving toward financial peace, including preparing for emergencies, getting out of debt, involving your spouse, building accountability, and learning to manage what God has already placed in your hands. But this episode isn’t just about money. It’s about identity, preparation, responsibility, and becoming the man God is calling you to be. Real Men. Real Conversations. Real Growth. 🎙️ Guest: Gabriel Castro 💬 Topics: Financial Peace • Debt • Marriage • Fatherhood • Manhood • Faith • Identity • Stewardship

Gabriel Castro · 00:44:18

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